Senior sex dating
At this point I’m okay with petting, but I don’t feel comfortable getting naked and doing more. First, I am very scared of having sex with someone who might have a sexually transmitted disease. So I would need to be sure the man was disease free before I would exchange any fluids, either through intercourse or fellatio.Also, he mentioned early on that he doesn’t always have an erection. I don’t want him to ask me to spend ages masturbating him or giving him oral sex to get him aroused. Tell him that you enjoy the sensuality of what you’ve been doing, but you’re not ready to take it further and can’t predict when or if you will be. Meanwhile, a few things to think about: It sounds like he has hinted at his sexual needs but you haven’t ask him to clarify them. The other night I lay in bed with him and we petted with our clothes on. I have a very high libido and want sex very much physically, but I’m not ready emotionally. We’ve been doing a lot of kissing and holding hands and just general touching.Your healthcare provider may be able to help you stay fit and active, as long as you're willing to talk about what's bothering you.Try to let go of expectations and “shoulds” as you enter the senior years.
If erectile dysfunction is an issue, try intercourse with the woman on top, where hardness is less important.You might experiment with oral sex and masturbation as ways to please each other in bed.Check with your healthcare provider to design a workout plan for yourself, and stick to it.Many older adults and seniors report that their sex lives actually improve as they age.