Free transgender dating
As I click, message and swipe through the world of online dating, I’ve quickly learned that there are at least three different types of guys: those who fetishize trans women, those who are curious but cautious, and those who simply don’t read.
Unfortunately, these labels don’t appear on their profiles.
However, I recently went on a date with a guy who was tall, handsome, funny and had his shit (relatively) together. I responded saying it was all over my Ok Cupid profile, which it turns out he never read.
We met in the late afternoon and enjoyed our frozen yogurt in perfect patio weather. At the end of the date, our first kiss quickly turned into a handsy makeout session in the backseat of my car. He said, “I’m bouncing; that’s f-cked up,” and jumped out of the car, spat on the ground, slammed the car door and walked away.
These guys want to chill somewhere less public or exclusively at their place so they won’t be seen with me.
Even since Tinder introduced more genders to choose from than just the binary male and female, it doesn’t show your gender on the swiping screen.After that, I stopped chasing guys who were too concerned about their feelings to even think about mine.Red flags like continually postponing dates and constantly asking, “When are you getting the surgery?After realizing that I deserved so much better and was wasting my time with these guys, I stopped giving them attention.
After one too many encounters with men who were fetishizing me, I started to spend time on guys who actually wanted to get to know me.I usually get very forward messages from guys who just want me for my body.They view me as exotic, a kink, something new to try.” helped me whittle down the number of guys I talked to by half.